My boyfriend took his female friend to a strip club.

So, typically i trust my boyfriend. He and i have been dating off and on for a few months now, taking things slow since i’m pretty slow to trust after being very brutally sexually assaulted a few years ago.

To preface, the man i’m dating is (not to brag) pretty damn attractive. He’s a 6’4” body builder with wild long hair and the most charming smile you’ve ever seen. He’s been with a lot more people sexually than i have, but that’s none of my business.

A little while ago, his friend from where he grew up, Tiana, came back to visit. I was working all weekend and didn’t end up meeting her. He told me that together they went to a strip club in the city for fun. This made me a little uncomfortable, but we aren’t serious to the point where i felt comfortable sharing how i felt (being a victim of abuse and all, that sort of thing is difficult.)

Now, she has come up before. He and i were having problems having sex since he’s pretty well endowed, 10 or 11 inches or so. I was telling him that i was just too small for him since i was in serious pain, and he responded by telling me that his friend tiana is tinier than me, and has taken a dick just as big before, and “it must be something else.” This made me wildly insecure, and it’s not the first time he’s compared me sexually to other women. I told him how that made me feel awful and he seemed clueless as to how and apologized.

Otherwise, we have had no issues! He’s been very supportive and loving, not to mention a few bumps in the road. I don’t feel that he’s being intentionally hurtful, but i want other’s opinions.

What am i supposed to do? I’m too scared to be hurt again, and this was a few weeks ago so i feel that my window of opportunity has slipped away, but this is still eating away at me.

Thank you!