Is it possible to forgive your partner and be happy again after he/she cheated?

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And if yes, then how? I’m trying, but all I can think of is maybe he thinks of her when he’s with me. Or them together and I feel like I’m going crazy. Advice please ladies...

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I did & we’re now married with a baby on the way. Sometimes yes I do have trust issues or I get a little jealous if he’s spending a little too much time talking to a girl but other than that we’re great. I was extremely lucky in my situation but keep in mind this doesn’t happen with most situations. He never did physically touch anyone but he was on dating websites a few times. So it’s not AS bad as if he had sex with someone else or had a whole other relationship on the side. If you’re in either of those positions I’d say leave and don’t look back.

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For me personally, probably not. I’d have trust issues. And I’d wonder why he cheated in the first place. I think you need to have a sit down and talk things through and see what’s missing in your relationship that lead him to cheat. He was in the wrong but if you really love him and trust that he won’t do it again, follow your heart.

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my boyfriend and i were going through a very hard time (not an excuse, but it makes it easier for me to forgive) and he was texting other girls, flirting. it never became more than flirting. we are currently working through things and it is hard but it’s worth it. sometimes i freak out if he’s being shady with his phone, but it’s because i’m not able to 100% trust him again. i told him if he wanted to lie, he was going to be treated as a liar. he understood and has no problem when i check his phone. he’s very supportive and is so upset that it happened. it’s been about a month since it happened and so far i see a huge difference in him. this was a one time thing, so if yours was a multiple time thing, i don’t think you should stay. they knew they messed up the first time and they saw how much they hurt you, but they did it again. i think you should use your own judgement. i see so many posts about ‘if you stayed after he cheated, you’re naive, you’re blind, you’re crazy, you’re stupid.. etc.’ but that’s not necessarily true. you know what you can handle, you know what you can take, and i saw use your judgement :)

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i accidentally clicked yes,but meant to put no.If it really hurts you and you can't stop thinking about it, then its best you leave rather than continuing to hurt yourself.

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I had someone cheat on me and it ended the relationship. We tried to stay friends and even that didn't work. Could be possible though, but I'm sure it'll take a lot of work.

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You can forgive that person but you won’t ever forget  what happened...  but trust the saying if they cheat once they’ll do it again..  A cheater is just like a liar and  liar is just like a thief..  I would most definitely have a sit down with him and let him in on your feelings.

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My brother and his now wife went through this. He was dating another girl while with her. I don’t know how they managed to do it- when I ask his wife about it she says that they talked a LOT and almost did break up. But they worked through it and she says that she gave him “blank slate, unquestionable forgiveness, and unwavering trust” and that’s the only way they moved forward. They are now happily married and in a very healthy relationship. It is possible but it just depends on the people.

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I personally do not believe so.

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It took me a good 5 months to be comfortable again. It was purely emotional but it hurt just as much. We didn’t have sex. We started with small dates and worked our way back to a relationship. It’ll get better just be open minded and optimistic.

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thats for you to talk to him in full detail. i say give one chance, and then if it happens again be done. but make him prove if he actually regrets it or anything. tell him you need to trust him again. my boyfriend didnt cheat, but it fekt like it to me in a mental way. he felt awful and I gave him a option, me or her. he chose me and we have been really happy since.

Is it possible to forgive your partner and be happy again after he/she cheated?

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