Visitors after delivery

Hi ladies! Need some advice....how are y’all planning to handle visitors after you deliver? My parents live in the same town as us but my in-laws think everything is a competition with them and that it isn’t fair if my parents meet the new baby before them 🙄.My husband missed the last birth due to being out of town so I really want us to have time as a family and adjusting to our new addition before his parents arrive. That being said, I also don’t want them staying with us or over at our house 24/7 once I get home from the hospital and we’re trying to adjust to a new routine, etc. My parents will watch the other two children while my husband is at the hospital with me. Do I bite the bullet and have them visit while I’m in the hospital knowing that the nurses will eventually kick them out or

wait until I’ve been home a couple days? In case y’all can’t tell, there have been major boundary issues with my in-laws in the past and being around them is a huge stressor for me and my marriage.

*I’m posting this anon because the last thing I need is for this to somehow get back to them🤣