Having a fear that I’m settling

Been with my current boyfriend for a while now and since the beginning we’ve always split dates. He will pay once in awhile but he will always complain about the price and I can tell it makes him uncomfortable to provide for me in that way.. he makes good money and more than I do.

In the bedroom, we always focus on getting him off and has probably eaten me out once.

I just don’t see him as a provider and I do so much for him.

I’m young only 22 so I don’t know what I should do.