Am I in the right to feel upset and violated?
So, the back story to this is that I dated this guy. We talked for a month and dated for a month. The reason I broke up with him was bc he cheated on me, and made me so emotionally drained. Anyways, fast forward about 4 months later. I get this text from a random person. She tells me my ex gave her my number. I was nice about it and all. But I felt so violated and disrespected for my number going out to a person that I DONF KNOW, and without me knowing it was given out. But I talked to her anyways because I was just being nice. She gives me some red flags stating how she’s depressed, and goes to counseling but isn’t even diagnosed. Like how is that possible? Then she said she felt like cutting, but that 20 minutes later, she was absolutely fine and nowhere near cutting. I text my ex asking why he gave it out and he was a douche like I expected. I ignored the girl after I saw red flags. And I told her that. I get a text the next morning from her, telling me to not bring in my ex, when he very well is part of this. But all I did was ask why. I went back and forth with this girl and she doesn’t get how it violates my privacy. She tells me to leave her alone. So I blocked her number. NOT EVEN 5 MINUTES LATER, DOES SHE MESSAGE ME TRYING TO TALK TO ME. SHE CALLED ME SELFISH AND SNOTTY AND RUDE FOR NOT BEING FRIENDS. I don’t have to be friends with every person. I don’t have to help every person. It’s not my job. And I’m told I need to find something I’ll be good at and not do therapy which I’m not even a certified therapist yet. I’m going to school for it. She also asked me about this guy in the beginning, and if we were friends. I said no, not anymore because of how ignorant he was. And he’s ganging up on me now. I have a feeling she deleted messages to make it look like I’m bad because she did it on Instagram. But am I right or wrong for feeling violated, disrespected, and refusing to be friends and help the girl?
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