Husband, Money, and 30th birthday. Am I wrong?

I choose not to talk about my relationship issues to my family, so glow ladies i need some advice.

My husband and I recently went full time working for ourselves so money is being spent very cautiously . My husband is, and has always been CHEAP. He rather save than spend which I love but now it has caused some issues.

I turn 30 in October and I’ve always thought of celebrating BIG. So my idea was to go to Miami and live it up with a group of friends ( and hubby). I feel like that’s not even asking for a lot. Well when I finally sat and talked with him about it he straight up told me no. He said its not a smart move and even though we have the money, we need to be cautious since we are in our building stage.

For some reason when he said no I felt extremely hurt. I don’t know if it’s because I felt as if I had no control or like my special day meant nothing to him, but I was HURT. ( I can be a crybaby). I’m at the point where I don’t want to do anything but my friends keep saying how it’s a big birthday and I shouldn’t let him get me down.

Am I wrong for making this into a big deal? Hope to see some responses.