Ok so a few days ago I made this pretty long post about my boyfriend of just about 4 years not stepping it up as a father or a boyfriend. We have an almost 3 year old and I’m currently pregnant.

So we talked. Well I did. He doesn’t talk, about us, ever. I was straight up and told him I’m getting to my breaking point and if we’re going to keep going down the same path we’ve been then maybe we need to not be together. 🤷🏻‍♀️ he didn’t say much of anything, even more so when I told him he doesn’t say anything. We bickered a little this morning and now he texts me from work and says “remind me that we need to talk on the way home” so I asked him if it was what we talked about the other day and he says yes and more.

So this might just be it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I wish he would just talk to me when he’s ready instead of telling me to remind him that we need to talk like now I’ll be thinking about it all day long. In all honesty if this is it then it is I’m not totally worried about it I’d just rather know so we can work on co-parenting. Just sorta sucks that if we do split up how we’ll still have to live together until March. As I stated before we’re moving back to Pennsylvania in March and so I’m not just going to tell him that he needs to go plus the money we’re saving and it’s going towards OUR move not just one of us. Let’s just hope we can be peaceful until then.

I’m also not trying to assume but I think this may really be it