My BF and I have been together for a year but I feel so ready to go to the next level! Like at least get engaged. I know there’s no rush but I love him so much and I want to start my life with him. The issue is he went threw a divorce 2 years ago and that has made him “gun shy.” They dated for less than a year before they were married. It’s was like a 4 month engagement. He says he doesn’t want our relationship to be like last time. Which I totally understand.

How do I make myself chill out? I don’t want to make him feel pressured.