my mother has been married to an alcoholic narcissist since I was 7 years old. she has yet to leave due to money issues (car payment, taxes, etc.) I can't handle seeing her cry and be treated like shit anymore. "if you were a man, id fucking kill you." this is what he said to her while drunk the other night. and when asked what he'd do if a female friend told him her SO said that to her, his response was "I'd ask why did she provoke him?" I am fucking furious. I want her out of there. I just need some advice on how we can speed up this process. what can she do? what help can she get?

i have been staying with them since leaving an ex a little over a year but am moving in with my boyfriend this weekend. if I had my own place she'd be coming with me.