Second time around

Alright second time Mama's... I find myself worrying ALOT about labor and delivery this time around...in the sense that I need to be okay for my 2 year old...so more worried about my health and being alright than actual labor (and obviously baby's health as well)...anyone else feeling this way? Also, I've been reading that the after birth pains can be almost worse than labor with the 2nd baby...so I'm nervous about that. Anyone have insight on that? Thanks!