my first pregnancy ended in a mmc which had stopped 4 weeks before my 12 week scan, i was 13 weeks. this is my 2nd and i was suffering with abdominal pain, scan found it was twins, pain never went away so sent for scan after scan and everything was okay. Then one weekend i couldn't tolerate it, shropdoc said you're not bleeding the babies will be fine. I went to the doctors that week, again you're not bleeding it doesn't matter what pain you're in its fine... midwife appointment and she sent me to hospital, and i found i lost a twin... i hate doctors... anyway, i was under early pregnancy unit who said if i have pain to come back and they will scan, all understanding i didnt need to go back... had my 12 week scan and the one twin still there beating away, the other confirmed it had stopped but hadnt gone... another scan to check and it hadnt gone... now im 17 weeks so i go to triage now, its on my purple book, midwife said any pain or concerns call them.

All day i have had constant pain, couldn't move, paracetamol hasnt helped. So i ring them and because im not bleeding they wont see me! Its my 1st pregnancy so i dont know the difference between bad pain and normal pain....

Now im sorry but i have a high pain tolerance, dont tell me i dont know different pain its my damn body!!

Urgh she wasn't a nice lady to talk too. Looks as if it'll be shropdoc later on or wait until Monday doctor appointment to be seen about it.

Considering ive had two losses and the one hasnt come away you'd think they would want to monitor

I just needed to rant....