I am an introvert and I’ve always been a person who needs time to myself. I usually prefer being alone, but if I’m with other people, I prefer being with just one other person most of the time. Anyway, when I got pregnant I was extremely happy, because I’ve always wanted kids, but I thought to myself, “I will never ever have alone time again, because I will be with my child 24/7...”

Anyway, now my son is 18 months old, and I’ve never felt like I need time away from him. I work full time, so when I’m off, I ALWAYS want to be with him. However, I feel like I need space from my husband. My husband likes to talk A LOT, and he is a musician, so he is constantly playing music, and I just need some peace and quiet.

What I’m trying to figure out is why do I need space from my husband but not my son? My son can be pretty loud as well, just like most toddlers. Is it because he can’t really talk that much? Will I eventually feel like I need space from my son as well? I’m hoping that some other introverts can relate and help me understand myself! Lol

Thanks.