Married for 3 years....have a 17 month old together. No other kids.

I had a Vibrator before him and I got together. He didn't seem bothered by it.

So I bought another one because other broke. He plays it off as joking, with me getting another one. I thought to get it because he is always working. And to spice things up! I have made known that I wasn't replacing him with a toy! Said he jokes about giving me a hard time.

Do I just whatever it? Getting to sensitive butt hurt me? It's not like he watches porn and Jacks off while I'm taking care of the baby..... He did see what kind i got too....