Ok, I feel safe enough here to share this. I'm looking for anyone who has gone through something similar, or any advice, tips, tricks, whatever you want to call them.

I have been on DEPO for the past 4 years. I met my fiancee last year, and we decided that we wanted a baby. I started having lower belly pains in February, took pregnancy tests, all negative. went into the Dr, confirmed negative blood tests. was having a lot of pregnancy symptoms, Dr ordered an ultrasound. found out I had a cyst on an ovary. Dr suggested completely coming off all birth control and just letting my body do it's natural thing. she said I should start to cycle in a few months. so in April, I bought an ovulation test because I didn't want to be in the dark when Aunt Flow hit. I hit peak ovulation in May, of which we made sure to be physical. Still no cycle. had a positive pregnancy test at the end of June. had a blood test 3 days later that showed negative. Fast forward to now. we are TTC but getting tired of going to the Dr in hopes that we're pregnant. I've been totally off DEPO (last shot was December). Any tips or advice to give us? I know it won't happen overnight but it'd be nice to have someone in a similar situation to talk to!