Hi Ladies, wanting some reassurance really.

My first pregnancy and I had Ectopic surgery 20th June, they removed my right tube and the baby. I was 3 weeks pregnant when they discovered it was ectopic because of my bleeding and HCG levels only rising slightly. They did a scan of my tube and found a clot of blood. After surgery, they told me to refer to it as “pregnancy tissue” but I feel as though I lost my baby and it makes me mad that they want me to refer to it as “pregnancy tissue”.

Since the surgery I have had intercourse twice with my husband and both times I cried afterwards. Is this normal? Should I be crying?

They told us to wait 3-6 months before trying again, I feel like I want to try now but at the same time I want to follow my Doctors advice.

Any help would be appreciated.