Being flirty

I am really enjoying flirting with a coworker. He knows im married My husband knows we flirt (and loves it!). We recently started talking on messenger and we message all the time. Like every day. Though It’s super innocent chatting. I dont feel that i can share this with friends though and feel the need to share with someone.

My husband has a fantasy of me being with another man. I know he’s a coworker so dont want things to get messy. But he also leaves the country in november...

It’s so nice having someone look at me like he does and be interested in me as a person.

But i worry about what would happen if the fantasy became reality. My husband says these things but would be actually be ok if they happened? Could i actually go through with it?

And mostly right now i want to hang out with him just to get to know him.

Anyway Im rambling but wanted to share. Not sure if anyone else has been in this position.

I appreciate the comments/perspectives/experiences but if you arent willing to be a respectful human please keep your rude memes and judgements to yourself.

As stated, i do like the fantasy, but dont know that i could actually go through with it in reality. My husband is an amazing man and i love him with all my heart. He is my soulmate. He is the man i married and want to have kids with and grow old with. And what i do enjoy most about the fantasy is what it does for our sex life. It has taken me 5 years to even open up to the possibility of it but i see what it does for my husband and i love that. And i know i am enjoying attention from someone.

What is pretty great is how open we have been with each other. I have said these words to my husband. And as a result i actually feel more connected with him.