Is it just me

Just late night random thoughts. It’s kind of messed up that women can chose to abort without the fathers consent and sometimes put their baby up for adoption without his consent. But then when a father doesn’t want to be a father he’s placed on child support and forced to pay. Am I the only one that thinks they should change the laws on this? If a father wants to be a father he should get to be. If he doesn’t want to he shouldn’t be forced because we as women can choose when we aren’t ready. Some argue that it’s her choice because she’s the one that will have to go through a pregnancy and labor but seriously she chose to have unprotected sex just like the man, they both deserve equal day in the decision