Can’t orgasm vaginally

So I used to masturbate with just penetration, but since I started playing with my clit more and more I no longer wanted to orgasm vaginally. It was just too much work once I figured my clit out. Now, even if I try with a nice dildo, a man, or my fingers for a while, I can’t orgasm through penetration. I’ve read that this happens to some women, but I really don’t want it to happen for me. I feel like since I used to be able to that I can fix this. Any suggestions??? I am desperate!!!!