He's on SEX websites!!

Got up this morning with hubs while he was getting ready for work. I grabbed his phone since mine was in the bedroom charging. We have always used each other's phones whenever we want. I have access to pretty much everything and he does to mine too. We have fingerprints stored for eachother.

I opened the web browser to look up something for our remodel we're doing. We JUST bought our fist house together on the 17th. I wasn't paying attention to what was there initially and went straight to homedepots website, then I realized what I had seen. He had a sex site opened up, one used to chat and meet locals for sex. I asked him why it was there and he just said "I don't know", like he was confused by it. Looks pretty fake and reviews say it's a fake site. He tells me that it's just a site to chat and be able to get off He says to me that he doesn't think any of the girls are even real I got to looking and checked the history, hes been logging in nearly daily for a month!

he's sent messages back and forth. even stating that he is married and looking for someone to chat with. In some of the messages he's mentioned even finding someone to meet with!

I literally just feel numb right now. How do I handle this? We've been together for 4 years. Married for 9 months. We're trying to get pregnant. We honestly don't have sex much, it's failrly boring but I haven't told him that. We only ever do missionary, I'm a big girl and I have more experience than him but his mobility is not great and we can't seem to work things out in other positions. I feel like this is probably WHY he is doing this, he deleted the site in front of me before going to work. I found 3 other sites he is a member of but doesn't appear to be active on.

I honestly don't know what to do!

disclosure: We have always used each other's phones whenever we want. I have access to pretty much everything and he does to mine too. We have fingerprints stored for eachother