My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, sometimes I feel like our relationship isn’t how it used to be. He don’t apologize for anything he does. He gets off of work and goes straight to hang out with his friend to drink and smoke. I’m going to start college soon and I’m not going to have the time to hang out with him as I’m juggling school and work. Last week I ran into a old friend who helped me get through the tough times in my life, I would tell him everything and he would tell me everything he was my best friend. he also had a huge crush on me but at the time I wasn’t interested and I was with my current boyfriend and I never gave him the time of day. As I ran into him my heart skipped a beat and I felt butterflies in my stomach as I sat and talked to him. I never felt like this toward him I always thought of him as just a friend. But I was so excited to see him (honestly I forgot he existed) and now I can’t stop thinking about him. My boyfriend doesn’t like me talking to guys . People have told me that he’s to controlling. But I never listened. I don’t know what to do . 😩