what can i do so my 1 year old stops hitting me and slaping me?😦 my husband and i dont fight or agrue but the baby started hitting me and slapping me and throwing some big tantrums for no reason😔 and to be honest i dont want to hitt him, i dont want him to to be scared of me iether. Is there a way i could help him stop without having to spank him? also i do tell him to stop and its not right but the more i tell him thats its not ky to hit mommy he does it more