Lately my wife has been feeling super distant. We are in the process of moving and I know it has us both stressed out. I'm having a really hard time with the move, where as she is excited. Im trying to be as understanding as I can but I really need her to lean on right now. I've expressed how I feel and everytime she gets defensive or says shes just "tired". It just makes me feel ridiculous for feeling the way I do as if I'm being over emotional or something. But then the problem and the feeling persists. Im really not asking for much. I just want her to feel present while we are spending time together or eating a meal together. I'm trying to figure out another way of approaching it or different words to pick. I've brought it up twice now. This move has been really testing my mental and emotional strength. I really need to feel close to her.