Need some advice... long story short. My in laws talk about everyone behind their backs. Recently they were upset with a grandchild for not making them apart of their lives. While at a so-called family dinner the we’re calling this grandchild a bitch and other derogatory names. Referred to another one in a derogatory sexual term. My husband and I just avoid it all together and limit our time with them. We have slowly been separating ourself from his family- due to this. We know we want a child and have agreed this talk and conversation will not be allowed around our child.

I know it’s his parents and I feel bad he is embarrassed by them. Anyone else deal with this.