Kissing boys.

Samantha

I’m 15 almost 16. My boyfriend is 17. I’ve had a couple of “relationships” if that’s what you wanna call them. None of them lasted longer than a month. I’ve been with my current boyfriend Matthew for 3 weeks Friday. We’ve known each other for almost 4 months. My mom seems to be getting mad because I won’t kiss him yet. Yesterday when we dropped him off at his house I hugged him and my mom told me to kiss him, and I said no and laughed because she wasn’t being too serious about it. She got kinda mad after a minute or so. So I kissed him on the cheek. Then as we were leaving to go home she said “so what’s up with you not wanting to kiss Matthew?” I told her that there wasn’t really a reason I just didn’t want to rush things and I didn’t think I was 100% ready. She then says “well you didn’t have a problem kissing them other boys.” So I respond with “and those other boys didn’t stick around.” Then this morning she asked if Matthew was mad at me because I didn’t kiss him. I told her that I didn’t think he was because he wasn’t acting any different. I message him and ask him if he’s mad and he tells me he’s not mad. He knows that I’m scared to kiss him and he’s not pressuring me to do so. Am I crazy for thinking that my mom is being over dramatic for getting mad that I won’t kiss him?