He’s not ready

I’m extremely frustrated tonight 🙄

My husband and I have had a plan to start trying for a baby in July, he wanted it. He suggested it. My entire fertile week he avoided having sex with me.

As soon as it was over he couldn’t keep his hands off me. I’m now ovulating again..he wants nothing to do with me. I asked him if he wasn’t ready because he’s been avoiding sex and he said “I have not!” When he very much HAS been avoiding sex with me.

Last night I was flirting with him and I told him “let’s go have sex” and he said “okay” well I go pee and come to the bedroom and he’s called our dog into the bed and was tucking him in to go to sleep. I said “I thought we was having sex” he said “oh I thought you was joking” tonight I asked him if we could have sex “sure” and I tried to make a move and he said “well I need a shower I’m dirty” 😡😡😡😡😡 he takes a shower and sits down and gets on his phone. I ask him why hes avoiding sex and then ends up causing a fight with me saying it’s all my fault and I just want to fight with him.

If hes not ready for a baby why won’t he just say so?!? 😡😡😡 I’m totally okay with waiting, like I’ve told him, but yet he keeps on the act like he wants to until it’s time to actually have sex to make the baby 🙄

I don’t know what to do. He won’t communicate at all about this all he will say is he wants to have sex but I just want to fight about it 🙄