i’ve identified as bi/pan for a little over a year now, and last march i got into a relationship with someone who was nonbinary. we’ve both been super into each other the entire relationship. through out several months they questioned their gender and at times felt like they might be a trans boy. fairly recently, they told me that they were actually a girl and asked me to use she/her pronouns again. before our relationship i would question whether i was a lesbian or bi A Lot but once we started dating i got comfortable with the label bi. now that she’s my girlfriend, i’m questioning again. i want to talk to her about it but i don’t want her to feel as if she can’t express her gender should she ever re-realize she isn’t a girl or something. but the more i think about it the more i feel like i’m really only attracted to girls but if she was to come out as trans again i’m pretty sure i’d still like her because i’ve been in love with her for months, including when she felt like she was trans