my boyfriend and i had sex this morning and at first he tried to stick it in with out me being wet or him... so of course i told him he has to get everything wet first , he did & we proceed. afterwards i started to feel this burn. i went to pee and the pain was worse it was so bad i had to set in a ice cold bath and 30 minutes later the pain went away. is this normal? i’m a new mom and i’m 30 weeks.