How do I tell him he should be more dominant?

I’m definitely the more dominant one. He makes out with me a lot but I always initiate everything else. I take off both of our clothes, I give him oral, I hop on top of him, etc. He’s very very very submissive. He never tries to have sex with me either, it’s always me trying to have sex with him. I don’t mind being the dominant one but sometimes I wish he’d just rip off my clothes or pin me down or spank/choke me or something! He’s more of a “make-love” kinda guy which is really sweet but I wish he knew we could make love while also being a little more energetic. I’ve also never had an orgasm with him? It feels freaking amazing and he does everything just right and I absolutely love it but as soon as he cums he goes straight to sleep. I just really want to feel wanted in the bedroom yknow? I miss that feeling of someone wanting to have you so badly that they just take you and have their way (consensual of course) and we’ve never had that sexually. It’s really weird too because we’re in a ldr and rarely ever have sex let alone any physical contact so you’d think we’d have the most passionate sex huh? I’ve never had this issue before and I don’t know what to do 🤦🏽‍♀️