**long post** sorry need to vent!!

Ok so my mil is just an asshole and finally my husband's starting to realize it and I'm over here like

so I had my baby girl 6 months ago and before we had her we told his family and my family to please wait until the 2nd day in the hospital to come up. my family understood that we wanted our time with our little girl but his family took it as they don't want us up there at all. but the thing is they act all fine when we told them. well then baby comes and me and my husband are like

my family comes up to see her the next day and my husband went to his parent like hey why aren't you coming up. this bitch tells him your wife said she doesn't want us up there. which btw is bullshit I never said that!! and my husband argues with them and his mom said well I'll call cps on you for a dirty house. and guess what my " dirty house" was. literally didn't have time to put away my baby shower gifts. that was it! the whole house was clean but I had a pack n play filled with baby gifts ( my dad was in the hospital and unfortunately I lost him the day before I had my baby girl) so understandably I was up at the hospital a lot. well my husband got upset told her you will never see my kids again. later that day she comes crying and apologizes says she'd never do that and she knows are house is clean. my husband forgives her.. I knew she would throw another fit. well months later we come over to visit and we visit like 1 or 2 times every 2 weeks or so because they make smart remarks. well our daughters crying when mil held her. so mil keeps going on and on that our daughter doesnt know her and is afraid of her. well no it's not that our daughters afraid of her. everytime we come over mil would hold her for a second then passes my daughter off for her daughter's daughter ( who is their everyday). and if mil is holding our daughter and she cryes she will hand her right off without trying to calm her or anything. any time her daughter daughter cries with her she would let the mom take he8r she will say no it's ok I got her and will calm her. so at this point I'm like

well this time my husband was helping fix there air conditioner. his mom tells him use a small screw ok well his dad hands him a long screw even though he knows that his wife said a small one. so my husband just helping screws it in thinking ok well this must be what they decided because his dad handed him it after knowing that his mom wanted a small one. so then mil sees it starts freaking out it's ruined it's right in the frame. and you wanna know what fil does. just like a kid

"it wasn't me"" it wasn't me" and starts walking away even tho he was the one with the screws like my husband literally didn't even have the screws his dad was handing them to him.so mil turns to my husband and starts bitching my husband tries to tell them what happened she won't let him get a word in so my husband goes" fine I'm done your not listening to my side. your always right. whatever. " and he tells me were leaving I get the kids together and get ready to go. mil comes out crying and tells my husband " I'm tired of your smartass attitude stay away for a while don't come back" my husband tells her " don't worry I wont". so we leave....

his brother tells my husband he has no right to be upset because all that went down and my husband says yes I do. i didn't do anything yea I screwed it in but it's the screw dad handed me. so my poor husband's family won't talk to him now because they are all very much on mommys side. my husband's upset but standing his ground and isn't coming back until his parents call him and work it out. It's been a nice week with out them actually. but his family's put me through hell. they get upset over the littles things like we went up to mackinac city for 1st anniversary they got mad we didn't invite them. we left after spending half the day at his family's house for super bowl Sunday.( we went to my parent house which was the last time I saw my dad up talking and walking around the next day he was in icu in critical condition) they got pissed about us leaving. they get mad we don't go over to their house every day to visit ( his sister goes over their everyday. his brother goes over their everyday after work before even going home to his gf. and his other brother has mil and fil babysit so is their everyday) we want to live our own lives so we don't visit everyday. welll if you lasted this long thank you so much for letting me rant they really stress me out...but here's a picture of my little girl since you lasted this long