So I'm in this relationship with a guy I been off and on with for about 8/9 years.

We been able to keep it going for a good 3 years without breaking up for a long period of time. But my issue is this...in the past he didn't want me to have social media because he tripped on the guys I had on there possibly hitting me up. (Like id give them the time of day😒) but what ever for his sake I got rid of it. For reasons I got it back and hold to the fact that I went the extra mile (when I don't have to) to get off SM for him. But he won't do it for me.

Point now: My dude wanted me to take pics off my insta because he said I was looking "to cute"

The pic here. Commented under "meow"

Not bad right...?

My issue is why do I need to go through all that extra work for him to feel better that people, more specifically guys, won't like me looking cute, but if I asked that's same thing of him it would be an issue of me tripping.

A guy can post a pic shirtless ...isn't an issue.. Right...

But a girl saying meow with cat ears is thirsty and calling all dicks to her dm....?!

Oh ok sure... Right...⬇

Please, explain I am confusion!!!

I'm to old for this shit... I'm fucking 22 ..