Birth story

Shana

Well I have being reading everyone birth story and I felt I wanna share mine with everyone well it’s started with me busy working me and my husband never talk about baby and ... opps I got pregnant with in 3 months was super excited and happy so far along the way in my pregnancy was good all appointment everything until one day we decided to move because we want more space ( at the time was living wit my in law) so the hear abt a place when we went to see the place it was perfect I love it but the problem ( still again wit my in laws they will be upstairs and we downstairs) so at he time we was still living at the old place I was around 34 weeks so it was a Saturday morning when my mother in law start a problem abt the new place n put me in the argument it’s shock me rite there n then she didn’t think I was pregnant I that would stress me out so my husband leave and gone to wrk the whole day she didn’t talk to me she had her favorite daughter in law they laugh n chat away n never talk to me as soon as I walk into the room they stop taking I feel bad I had nobody by my side I go cook n shower n when straight to my room my husband came home late that night so Sunday morning nw still nobody taking to me any I pack up laundry to go do wit my husband n then we had to go over by the new place to give some papers work to the new landlord so as I sit there in the landlord house she look at me n say you look like you go pop anytime soon so I told her no am due in a month time ( omg I was still thinking abt the argument n nobody talking to me ) we reach home ( it was winter time ) so again my husband had to go wrk he was working night shift com home bk in the morning so the leave I pack up our laundry n eat dinner n head to bed but during the day I felt my belly drop or I should say it feel heavy but I knw they say it happen when you in ur 9 months which I was not anyway I had a doctor appointment Monday morning the Monday morning around 4am I wake up and found my self Wet I was omg 😮 did my water bag break so I didn’t feel no pain neither no blood I when change my clothes n when bk to bed ( my first baby ) so my husband comes home around 6am so I feel I wanna pee so I go to the bathroom n my husband was there so I don’t get to go in n wet my self again for he second time I told my husband he google fails labor n he leave me to get some rest bcz he had to go bk to wrk for 12 I change again n go slp wake up to go to my doctor I had a cup of tea n 2 slice of wheat bread toast I walk go to the bus stop wait got on come off wait again for another bus ( 2 bus ) I reach my clinic met my doctor and told her what happen she give my papers to go over by the hospital at labor and delivery room so again walk go to the hospital happen so my very good friend msg me n I told her what happen she say and leaving what am doing n com so she meet me at the hospital when I reach there they check me in I get dress wit he gown when the nurse check my she say u dilate 6cm 😮 an you having the baby today I told my husband he didn’t believe me so my friend told him ( I already had my bag pack so he had to bring it and come) so by the time he com I was in delivery room just wait on time I was 35 weeks when he came he bring his mom who didn’t not talk to me in days but act like she care call everybody telling them am having the baby it was the first grand for my husband side family so around 12 clock the nurse leave me n gone am getting pain in n out omg so all of a sudden o told my husband go get the nurse I wanna pee bcz I could not use the bathroom so I do my thing pain again this time told my husband go get the doctor the baby coming he say u sure I say yes bcz I com feel his head was abt to com out when the nurses n doctor come in no seconds they prepare the room when the doctor check she say baby coming I push n push so I was so weak my husband was not even me the ice water fast enough so I could have not do it anymore so the doctor say just one more we can see this hairy head omg I was excited she took my hand n put it on this head when I feel that it give me strength to push n there he was healthy caring baby Liam 4:39pm weight 5 pound 1oz well there come the sad part they had to taken him away I cry I only got to hold him for a few seconds he was in the NICU for 1 week so I didn’t have a bad labour he born fast 👶