Don’t want to open up...

Feeling nervous & uncomfortable about opening gifts at the baby shower in front of everyone. We have to travel 3 hrs back home the night of our shower so I also really don’t even want to open things just to try and get them back in the bag in our car. Plus my boyfriend’s family and my family are two totally different types of groups of people (which we love) and by that I mean I one group has more money & goes all out and the other doesn’t & I don’t want anyone to feel like ‘that’s all I got them’ or ‘I already got them that now they will have two’ or just anything like that. I don’t want to be ungrateful or rude, I just really don’t like the idea of being watched as I open gifts. Anyone else?