Boyfriend plays WOW all the time
So my boyfriend told me maybe a week or 2 ago that he took 4 days off from work for this new expansion. I told him I want 4 days with no games before the expansion because that's only fair. For those 4 days off I know he will have like no interaction with me. I told him if hes gonna put video games first for 4 days then I deserve 4 days with him before the new expansion and he said no. He then said I just need to learn how to handle him playing games. He gets 2 days off every week from work but I never a full day with just him. On his days off I only get till 7pm with him and then he plays video games till like 5am which keeps me awake till 5am😑 on his days off we end up sleeping in till like 1pm so we lose time together and now with the expansion I get no time with him. Everyone I talk him about it he gets all mad. This is his favorite thing to do in the world but I want to find a balance so he doesn't have to quit. I know you cant play this game casually. It's the type of game you have to play often. But there has to be a way to make it so that I'm still his #1 focus. He won't even eat meals with me before playing WOW. I mean eating a meal with me while we watch a show would be nice. How can a find a balance and how can I explain to him that he doesn't put me first? He doesn't even want to do date nights thst often. Most of the time we just do the same thing(go yo a bar and then come home) then he plays WOW. He now started saying we have nothing in common because I dont play WOW or go to the gym. We both love hiking, bar hopping, trying good food together. I feel like hes growing apart from me and it's because of WOW. I dont want him to have to stop doing his favorite thing in the world. I just want a balance. And I want him to stop turning into being my fault when I bring it up. What do I do? I love him to much to just give up and leave him.
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