Should I stop trying until I figure out what’s best

My partner has really changed with me lately..

He seems to be getting very stressed and angry all the time...

I love him but I don’t know what to do any more??? Is love enough??? Am so confused

May be I should stop trying until I figure out why he’s so hot n cold with me all the time

We missed the main day this month because he got in a shitty... he has kids from previous relationships and I feel like he thinks things will change once we have a baby but surely he can’t take that out on me?

I try to explain that am not his ex’s but I dunno wat to do any more am really torn between what to do for the best... am desperate for another baby but I also don’t want to waste my time on a dead end relationship ... please help!!!