Married Virgin

Hi all! I posted earlier about getting married last Sunday & not being able to have sex because I was in excruciating pain each time we tried. We got it in about an inch but then I couldnt handle any more. Ive cried due to the pain several times. YES we used lube. YES i was aroused & emotionally ready and wet. You girls said to just suck up the pain. How much pain should I expect? After 6 days of trying & shooting pain I'm so scared to keep trying.

Edit: THANK YOU ladies. After the last post where everyone said it was normal & to just "suck it up" this is refreshing to hear from you all. I know my hymen might be tighter because we can only fit 2 fingers in and even that took 3 days to work up to.