Never again

Alexandra

My boyfriend has a best friend that a female. I’ve never been okay with that, but our therapist suggested i be friends with her and maybe that would help me be comfortable. I invited her to my home on Wednesday and she asked if she could bring a friend. I wasn’t really okay with the idea because I don’t know this friend, but I I said yes to be nice. My boyfriend tells me a few hours later that she’s actually bringing two people instead of one person over my house. I’m not okay with that, so just to confirm I go and ask her myself.

My boyfriend goes and tells her also to please just bring one person instead of two. She does a complete 180 and starts yelling and saying she doesn’t want to come anymore because I’m a liar and two faced and if I didn’t want two people over I should have said so and I’m starting drama that she doesn’t want to be apart of etc.......... I immediately say to her you never told me you were bringing two people in the first place so the miscommunication is on her. She has no right to be yelling at me, calling me those names and disrespecting his best friends girlfriend if she claims that’s her best friend.

I never want to talk to this girl again. She in my opinion is the one starting drama and I really truly feel my boyfriend needs to be done with her. She’s truly immature but it’s annoying because he doesn’t see that at all, despite my warnings and other people’s warnings he gets about her. It’s like he doesn’t want to believe it.

She then proceeds to tell him that he needs to think about breaking up with me because we have intense fights every week and we are seeing a therapist and thing are not getting better. How the hell is she going to jump to these conclusions when it’s not even her relationship.