Separate bank account

Back story husbands in the military we just got married so I just moved and have no money or job so he put me on his bank account and told me I didn’t have to work since we would be moving states agin really soon.

Now getting to it me and him talked about when I get a job that we would save my paychecks in my own bank account now just today I brought it up and he totally flipped out saying he didn’t think it was fair that I would have access to every sent we make but we were going to save my paycheck and I told him that if we need something I could transfer money to his account

Little side note he spends all the money right now since I don’t have a job and I don’t remember the last time I got something not saying I want or need something all the time but ever once in awhile it would be nice

AM I IN THE WRONG??