Small bump - not feeling kicks?

Amanda

I’m 20wk3d and have felt the little flutters inside, but nothing that’s on the outside my SO could feel yet. When did you start to really feel kicks?

My bump is pretty small (the nugget is measuring okay though). People don’t believe I’m 20wks already - looks like I just have a food baby more than anything! Does that effect when I’ll start feeling kicks? I would’ve thought a small bump would mean it’s easier to feel?