Why does it hurt when he hits it from the back?

Question

Okay so I’ve been hooking up with this guy recently and everytime he turns me around to fuck me from behind, it hurts so bad. Like I feel it in my stomach. It also hurts when he lifts my legs up over his shoulders to fuck me. What do I do? I just lost my virginity on Wednesday and then had sex two times after that. Does it get better? What are we doing wrong?

Answer

sex shouldn’t hurt, but given you recently lost it it could be more sensitive... try telling him to slow down or just do other positions which don’t hurt you

Answer

Ouch! I’ve been there. I suggest either using lube to allow better sliding and to avoid harsh friction.
 If that’s not the problem, perhaps it’s the angle you’re doing. Remember not to keep your back arched and to dip your back down (imagine like a yoga position).

If that’s still not working, try doing it over the bed (your stomach down on the edge of the bed, he’s standing- or if he’s too tall, lay face down, ass up on the edge of the bed and he’s standing). 
Sorry for the graphic descriptions, but from my experience (I’m 5’2 and my ex bf was 6’3) doggy style was REALLY tricky to figure out. So different positions were always being tested out. 
I hope everything goes well! 
Good luck 🦋

Why does it hurt when he hits it from the back?

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