What do I do?

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Hey ladies. 
*RANT POST*
I matched with a guy on Tinder (I know, total millennial love story cliché) and we hit it off, talking for about a week before we decided to meet up. It was GREAT! He was nice and funny and he didn’t make me feel self conscious when we finally had sex. Things were going fine, we had never defined our relationship other than me saying I didn’t want to keep having sex with somebody who didn’t see me that way. He said that he saw a future with me and that was basically it. Well fast forward to today and it’s been about 2 months since I’ve been seeing him- not exclusively. It sounds creepy, but I have his location on snapchat and I can see where he’s at. I saw him post a story and it was him at Disneyland. I thought, oh that’s cool...
(He knows I work there) and he never even mentioned to me about seeing me or hanging out tonight- which he always does. I thought maybe he was just there with his friends? Well, then I saw he went on the storybook ride and to those who don’t know what it is- it’s a pretty romantic ride. What group of guys would go on that? I figured I couldn’t get enough from just that to even think he was with a girl I guess, so I snapped him. My legs were bare and I said “when can I see you next?😏” and he opened it, messaged me and said “idk, maybe tonight? If I don’t get home too late” I left it. Then he posted a video and I heard a girl saying something to him and he laughed. I know it shouldn’t hurt me, but it does. Sex made me too emotionally attached to him and I don’t know why to do. Should I confront him about it? That’d be crazy, right?? Any advice? I know it all sounds so stupid and immature, but it’s still my feelings. Just don’t want to be stressing over nothing.

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You need to sit down and ask him what he seriously wants before you get more invested in him

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He doesn't feel the same way about you as you feel for him, it was probably the oxytocin from all the sex that got you attached, don't be just another one of his "girls", cut him off and find a man who feels the same way about you as you do him. Good luck

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He just wants to play. You’ve already been very clear with him and he’s obviously being clear with you— Guys aren’t that complicated.

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Have a full deep conversation with him about this and ask what he wants from the relationship. To me it looks like he doesn't have the same feeling for you as you do for him

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It sounds like he’s playing the field a little bit, and I think it was a pretty tacky move to bring her to the place you work. But you should be straightforward and ask him what was going on because maybe it was a misunderstanding.

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Idk I think maybe you should sit down and ask what YOU want instead. He hasn't earned the right to have all of the power in the relationship and he never should earn that right. I'm all for women figuring out that it's ok for them to not play by the "rules" and just stating what they want.

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You deserve an answer. You aren't crazy. Just ask him are we a thing. Are you able to make this an official relationship. If he can't then let him go. Don't waist your time with someone who isn't mister right when he is still out there waiting for you... Don't make him wait if this guy isn't the one.

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Could he be hanging with his sister? Or another important female, like best friend or cousin? I would go in a “love” boat ride with my brother just to goof off and laugh about how cheesy it was.

Ask him, it couldn’t hurt. If he’s just with family, you’ll know. If he has another lady you’ll know to move on.

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