Idk what to do..

Idk what to do or think about my husband and the fact that I keep telling him I need attention, affection, and intimacy. He always says he’s tired, hurting physically, or just doesn’t feel like it. It makes me wish I had someone who wanted to have sex with me as much as I did, or at least attempt to do fun things together. I’m getting impatient. He never used to be like this...and me being depressed doesn’t help. What would you all do?

Edit: yes both sides have been discussed, I know why he’s this way and he says he’ll always fix it before I just feel so unloved I’ll end up being alone and going back to my mother’s house. I do so many nice things for him, foot rubs, back rubs and massages, everything he wants I give it to him, and good morning hugs, cuddles, and kisses, but I want love in return, too. I want my intimacy, too.