Husbands and Tiredness

So me and my husband got in a huge fight last night bc im always asleep when he gets home. He doesn’t get home till around 9 each night bc he works all day and goes to school at night. I’m ready to go to bed at least by 8 each night. And here lately i have been going to bed. Well that has a caused a problem bc he says he misses me and just wants me to stay up at least two hours with him. Ladies what do i need to do? I try to explain that I’m just exhausted. I work as well, I’m a school teacher i see 91 kids a day it’s not like i don’t do anything. We try to set a date night for Friday or Saturday but stuff here lately just keeps coming up. Any advice? I’m tired, and tired of fighting with him.