Pregnant and Enlisted

Last night I took 2 pregnancy tests. Both positive. As clear as day. Im so scared. Im going through a divorce with my abusive ex who does not live with me. States away..i found a wonderful man who I've been friends with since AIT. My divorce papers are not complete since it has yet been signed by a judge. Im waiting for them to send me the letter that states they signed.

As to which is why I am scared. I am still leagally considered married in the army's eyes until they see a judge signature. Could i lose my career once they(my chain of command) find out? Dishonorable discharge? I need help. Please. I will not give up this child. We both do not want to get rid of the baby. But we are still worried. Any advice? Whats the first step to do once you find out youre pregnant?