Me and my boyfriends mom will never get along. She has said some racist things in front of me, talked down on my baby (pregnant with her sons baby), stared me down, disrespects me whenever she can. My boyfriend being the only child does not see it. He never tells her anything about her behavior. She’s a 64 year old woman still starting problems with me, a 20 year old. Now that I’m having my baby, I believe I have the right to not allow her to see the baby without me present. I honestly don’t trust her and I think she’s going to harm my son Bc she doesn’t want a grandchild. My boyfriend thinks his mom has the right to see him. I’m not taking the baby away from her but she’s not allowed to babysit him nor be with him without me there. And I need him to understand that and he doesn’t. Of course that being his mom, he trusts her but I don’t. I need to keep my son as safe as possible and frankly I don’t care about that woman. How do I tell my boyfriend that it’s not going to be the way he wants it to be? I don’t trust him to be with the baby on his own bc I know he’ll take him to his moms. Idk what to do