Just came back from the obgyn for my 20 week scan but they didnt even give me an ultrasound like they said they would and then they didnt enter my weight right last time and said ive gained 20 some pounds since my last visit at 16 weeks. And at my 16 week visit they gave me an ultrasound and said they had no idea why i was even getting one and told me they cant find the gender that soon and i dont go back for another 4 weeks and they dont have me scheduled for an ultrasound at my next appointment either. 😭😭😭 it hurts to see everyone getting their anatomy scan im afraid i will never get one