so it had been agreed upon between me and my boyfriend that when we had our daughter it was going to be us two and very peaceful and private. everyone would be welcome up after bonding/resting to see her. well he argued and argued for his mom to get the priveledge of being the only person to getting the text that were going up to have her... i compromised on his behalf but the more it gets closer the more anxiety its been causing me and the more i think about it and i hate that i feel like i wont be comfortable and have to do this on his behalf... but i feel like if its something i want us to keep private and between us its not fair that ONLY his mom gets special treatment when i dont even want to and wont be telling my own mom and family to avoid constant texts etc... is it something i should just suck up and deal with or should i bring it up..