Well i have been married to my husband for three years and i just told him tonight that i am a submissive. He and one other person in my life know this so it was a scary and big deal for me to finally tell him. I been hinting that i want him to take more control, especialky in bedroom and finalky felt comfortable enough to tell him. It went about as i suspected, through him off a bit he open to try new things just not sure how far. He was raised to never tell a woman what to do so he worries about that, but he going to watch and read more about this lifestyle and we will see what happens.

Update #1: last night my hubby tried a dash of control on me. He ordered me to remove my clothes and then ordered me on how fast and how slow i was to go giving him oral, he enjoyed it he said. Im happy he didnt find me weird he says this is a side of you and i love you so lets get to know this side, so i will be teaching him what i know getting advice from the dom I know and see what comes from it.