So lately, as in the past 3-4 months, my boyfriend has had a really low sex drive so we haven’t had sex since around May. On the contrary I have a very high self drive and just like the physical and emotional connection of sex with a partner. I miss that aspect of my relationship very much and am having a hard time not taking it personally that he’s not in the mood. I feel undesirable due to sex in my previous relationships being very fixated upon. Any tips on how to get out of this rut and not blame myself?