Ahh I feel overwhelmed right now

Teja

I've been so calm and relaxed this entire pregnancy. Today I just feel so defeated. I'm tired, I can't sleep, I've had heartburn on and off all day along with a headache plus pelvis pressure. By 7pm I just crawled into my bed and surprise surprise I can't sleep. All I really need is a hug to be honest But no.. My SO has come home and I've told him the hospital bags are packed - apparently I've overpacked like I did when we went away 🙄

I explained this is what is on the list to bring with me. His answer '' your whole pregnancy you've been fine, so why would you need to stay more than a night, if you need any extra ill just come back and get it for you". Why not just take an extra night dress along with me first time to avoid this? The hospital is almost an hour away as it is. Am I suppose to leave my slippers, dressing gown and breast pads at home? And he says 'I didn't say you didn't need any of that stuff'. So why the hell are we having this conversation? He just knew to change the subject before he got me started again 😡 men seriously need to have the opportunity to be pregnant.