I love my husband to death, I’m so lucky to have him in my life BUT when I met him 5 years ago we didn’t live together for a year, it was sort of a “long distance relationship” before you know I got pregnant with our first child, so he decided to move me in with him & that’s when he decided to tell me he had his 12 year old daughter living with him ( I knew he had kids from a previous relationship, but I was unaware that he was a single father, which made me love him even more, but I was still mad that he didn’t tell me she was living with him) FAST FOWARD 5 years today, we have two boys and I’m currently pregnant with a girl!

Now ever since we found out we were having a girl his daughter had been TREMENDOUSLY rude and disrespectful to me, her dad and taking it further and lying on my 4 year old son. I have been trying to be more than understanding, but today was the last straw when her and hubby were arguing and she yelled that She wishes I had another miscarriage.

I didn’t want to bring it up to my husband because I should have never been listening to their conversation, but I’m honestly devastated, hurt and a little pissed off that she feels that way especially when I’ve been nothing but kind and caring to her. Now obviously she’s a teenager and teenagers go through things

I really need some advice on how I should bring this up to my husband and make the conversation go my way. He babies her and makes excuses for everything she says and does. So, I really need some words or something to make him realize that she isn’t a baby anymore.